Just become better! It’s… easy

Hi guys,

In today’s post, I would like to focus on getting better. Not getting better than this guy who seems to have it all but better than you and just you yesterday. Changing anything in life requires us to get some skill or set of skills, sometimes a different attitude or different priorities. What is sure, if we want to see change around us, the only thing we are changing is ourselves.

Let me give you some examples. If you want to have a clean home, you need to change your habits or maybe learn how to clean (I know it is hard to believe, but there aren’t any magic gnomes who wash dishes after you or do your laundry). If you need more money, you need to learn new skills to be able to earn more or you need to learn how to spend more wisely. And if you look at any change you want to make in your life, it requires you to adjust one or the other way.

. So how to make any change easier? Just become better! It seems simple, while in reality changing yourself is the hardest part of it all. Throughout our lives, we’ve developed a lot of habits that make our life easy. We’ve created our routines, so a lot of times we are not even aware of the things we do. If we want to change anything, first we need to gain awareness of what are we doing now. Let’s take for example saving money. I think most of us would like to do it, but there is always not enough to put aside. So the first thing would be to realise where is our money coming from and how much each month are we getting. Where do we spend our money, which of our spending is a necessity and which isn’t and so on. Maybe we are not earning enough? So how to change it? Shall we get another job, start a side hustle or downsize our home? When we realise what the problem is and what options we have to resolve it, then we can try and decide which option is the best and what shall we focus on the most.

You could ask how do I know, that this is what we should do? I have no idea, but I am sharing my thoughts here and gaining awareness about myself is what I am trying to do now. As I will keep changing myself, I will share my results with you. It might work, might not. But I will never know till I’ll try.

And that’s all I wanted to share in today’s post. I hope you enjoyed reading and if you want to try anything I’ve written about, let me know in the comment. If you already using this technique, let me know if it works for you. And if you disagree, I will be happy to read your opinion. In the end, we are all here to learn.

But for now, I wish you a good day and I’ll see you in my next post.

Daria

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