Social approval

Hi guys,

Today I would like to talk about something what, in my opinion, all of us know. And yes, I was supposed to post an opinion about the book. But I am forced to do so next week. I hope you will forgive me 😉

But for now, let’s move to the topic of this post. Need for social approval exists in us since the early childhood years. As soon as we are starting playing with other children, we are getting more and more ‘dependent’ on their opinion. On the beginning, we might have just cried when other kids wouldn’t play with us, we wanted to have toys or clothes similar to them. But as time goes, we basically kept changing our opinions according to the trends ruling in a group of our closest friends. And finally, there is the time coming, when we realise that all this was for nothing and we simply start discovering our own style. We could say we are growing out of this. But do we, really?

As I’ve started this blog, I’ve heard a lot of voices from my closest ones that this is just a waste of time and my energy. They were using an argument that it will not make me any money. No one understood, that not everything has to be made for money. That I might need a place, where I just spill my thoughts out without worrying about how much I am going to make. And here I am, in my third year of blogging. I haven’t earned a penny since then, but I haven’t even tried. But I’ve got a lot of satisfaction. Each comment, each like. It seems nothing, but I take it as I made someone’s life a bit better. Maybe they’ve learned something from me, maybe they are in a similar situation and got reassured that there will be a better day, or perhaps they just had a bit of reading they’ve enjoyed. No matter what, it is worth it.

Having a blog is like having a psychologist who doesn’t give advice, but let me figure them out myself. It is like a journal, where I can throw all my thoughts to just empty my head. And it is also a place, where I can go back and see what was in my head a year or two ago. Place, where I can see how I’ve changed and judge, if I am going in the right direction.

But why I am telling you about all that? I just hope, that at least the only advice you’ll take from this post, is you do you. Whatever brings a smile on your face or just let you relax and forget about your problems, even for a while, this is what you should be doing. And don’t worry, if people say you are wasting your time or make fun of you. If you enjoy it, that’s what matters.

And I hope you’ll find your thing if you haven’t so far or if you did, that you will do it with your head held high. This thought is the last I wanted to share with you in today’s post. I hope you enjoyed it. I wish you a very productive day and I’ll see you in my next post.

Daria